Relationships shouldn’t be rush
One thing I learned in my 20’s.
Label is not a big thing as long as you remember what place you have for each other & stay true to yourself.
Relationships should not be rushed. It should be made in a proper process.
Mahirap pumasok kapag hindi ka ready lalo na kapag malaki ang nasira sa pagkatao mo (especially in your past relationship/s)
Pero, hindi ibig sabihin hopeless romantic ka na... you can still fall inlove, again. God loves you and you are worth loving.
It’s okay kung wala kayong label but at the same time you keep each others company.
What I mean is:
As you fix yourself, your relationship’s foundation & build each others trust again, you both are still single.
-Hindi kayo magjowa pero goal niyo maging kayo but “at the moment” mas binigyan niyong importansya ang foundation.-
Isantabi muna ang salitang “relationship” at unahing buuin at i-build ang foundation ng “friendship”. Ginagawa kasi nating big deal kapag sinabing “friendship” kayo, let’s percieve it in a deeper way guys. Mahalaga na matibay ang foundation ng relationship niyo right? And that is through “friendship”
• Build yourself, find yourself, learn how to be happy on your own company & to depend on the person who you are at the moment.
• Explore things that makes you happy, learn how to wipe your OWN tears, to solve your own problem, learn how you can TRUST yourself when things didn’t go in your way
• Understand each other, forgive each other, love each other, give each other space & time for yourselves.
Maging totoo na tayo guys, walang perfect na relationship and there is no perfect partner.
But “being imperfect makes your relationship perfect.”
It’s okay if wala “pa” kayong LABEL. We have our own opinion when it comes to this topic, if hindi ka pabor sa opinion nung ibang tao then learn how to respect it. Iba’t iba tayo ng pinagdadaanan.
As long ang you stay in the line of your limitations,
As long as you know what are your purpose kung bakit hindi “pa” pwedeng lagyan ng label,
As long as you want to build your foundation,
As long as you want to build yourself at the same time,
- It’s okay to have no label but have each others company at the same time. IT. IS. OKAY. -
Para pagdating ng tamang panahon kung saan stable na kayo parehas, kilala niyo na ang sarili niyo at hindi na kayo nagde-depend sa isa’t isa, your time will come and you will have that chance to put label on your relationship. Na pwede mo na siyang matawag na “boyfriend ko” “girlfriend ko”
And because you properly build the foundation, you’ll know what to do kapag sinubok na uli kayo ng panahon, without making impulsive decisions that will gonna’ make you regret later on.
xxx
Don’t rush the process if you want it to last.
If they judge your unlabeled relationship, let them.
Focus on what the reality your relationship have. And never waste chances that was given on you.
Godbless guys!
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